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My grandmother turned 89 this week. Her father died at the age of 72. She told the story of his last day to me when I called her this week to wish her a happy birthday. She said, "I want to die like that—" (of an aortic aneurism)—"so I don't put anyone out."

That made me sad because I wouldn't feel put out if we had to take care of her, and I told her so.

Happy birthday to you, Debbie. I hope you have a wonderful last year of your 50s!

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Thanks, Jody! I think many of us feel the way your grandmother does. The key is recognizing the love and kindness of others, reflected in a willingness to provide care. Bravo to you for communicating that to her!

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Sep 10Liked by Debbie Russell

Happy Birthday, Debbie! It gets even better at 60! (I'll be turning 64 in Dec!) It took me many years to finally step into myself without apology (which, ironically, also made it easier for me to apologize when I was, in fact, in the wrong)! All the very best, and can't wait to see, hear, and read what wonderful things come next for you!

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Thanks so much, Diane! You inspire me and my life is so much richer with you in it! <3

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"As long as I can get out of bed in the morning, I’m calling it a win." Every day I wake up is a gift waiting for me to accept, open, embrace and celebrate. That's how it begins and sets the tone for whatever follows from those things I have to do (needs) to those things I choose to do (wants). So far, so good and I follow this maxim from Etienne (Stephen) de Grellet whose biography I read last year:

"I shall pass this way but once; any good that I can do or any kindness I can show to any human being; let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."

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That’s one of my favorites! Thanks for sharing it, Gary! 😊

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